Most women claim we are "Independent, Strong, Relevant" in what ever social standards that we are acclaimed too and we fuss over what we do for our men???? We women, we are the architect of our own destruction... How IRRESPONSIBLE, IMMATURE and PATHETIC.
If we all understand what the meaning of love is, we would complain less and learn to handle our men's baggages alone... and we then get pissed off when a white woman handles our men far better than us..
It saddens my heart that you claim you love someone and your not willing to share or sacrifice part of yourself or belongings with such persons??
I watch lazy ass women sit at home with a good man who go to work and come back to take care of them and the babies, yet they still NAG the Hell out of him over "Toilet Seats, Clothes laying around"... what have you been doing at home all day? If taking care of your child is huge a task and you want rewards for it then your a BAD MOTHER, what is stopping you from getting a job and better still start a "DAY CARE" at home so you will be paid for it.. STOP STRESSING THAT MAN.
I watch as you claim you have all the Degrees, Intelligence, Well read, Classy etc and you cannot still keep a man with any of your degrees... Feeling pompous and soo full of yourself, you eventually fall for the wrong kind of man.. (You now wash his clothes, feed him with your money, train his sisters and pay hospital bills for his parents), MEANWHILE.... You NEVER build house for yourself or your mother.. YOU DEY CLAIM SAY YOU GET SENSE.. After you don chase all the other guys who condoled your excesses, tolerated your tantrums because they didn't just claim they loved you with words, they showed it. You didn't accept them because they most probably still stay with their parent, or got no degree yet..
YOU CLAIM JAMES BOND WITH YOUR HEART FALL MUGU.
And you MADAM talku-talku,
Na anything your man do you you go tell ya friends??? EYAH!!
If our Mothers told us all that our fathers did, i do not think most of us will see them as HEROS as we already do. If he doesn't touch you in 3weeks, your friends know and you must deliberate the matter over a plate of catfish pepper soup in your house.. (Part of the expenses he is working hard for).. while having that conversation.. you forget that he is thinking and working hard for the Children's fees that just got increased and that house rent, besides his brothers asked him for loan to start something.. and that Dubai trip he promised your mom and his mom this December. September is almost over..
So what if he hasn't touched you in 4weeks inko.. (Wetin do ya hand? touch yaself, better still ask for his permission for sexual toys) #Optional (Inbox for more advice on this, i have internet links to give)
What happened to "Talking about issues"? what happened to talking to him, after you give him a foot rub and massage his shoulders and prepare that meal his mother thought you?? Why not share in his problems than tell everyone including your PASTOR.. EYAHH... What happened to talking to God about the issues his going through.. what about Kneeling on his behalf?
All of a sudden all his friends know how "Shameless and Irresponsible" he is, over a domestic relationship issue, or because you choose to assist him, you insult him and bring him lower than his balls.
When you both settle, you do not tell these friends? bringing in the whole town to handle your business.. YOU OUGHT TO BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF.. whether your the richest of all women on this earth.. TREAT THAT MAN WITH RESPECT AND WATCH HIM FALL ON YOU FEET.
Come Because you know all the Bible passages on being virtuous doesn't necessarily make you one automatically.. and even if you are "Virtuous"and you still talk him down.. DELILAH BETTER PASS YOU.
I may not be experienced in men matters, may not even have a man to myself, (Assuming i dnt) but i watched a video of tired black men, and i see where black women claim we have one "Mad women syndrome", i tried to understand with them but i didn't get the fact or reason why Black women were always mad.. what are they mad about i still do Not know..
How can Jude get you angry and you go report him to Stanley and you abuse the hell out of him and tomorrow you run begging, clinging to his heart..
Virtuous women, are not formed from the bible, they are EVERY WOMAN... They Are You and Me... But some of us tend to not key into that Ability we have, instead make these men miserable.
TRY NOT TALKING DOWN ON YOUR MAN.... TRY TALKING TO GOD ABOUT HIM INSTEAD, BETTER STILL TALK TO HIM PERSONALLY.. OR WRITE HIM A LETETR..
PS... THIS POST IS NOT FOR THE OVER BEARING MEN... THEY NEED TO BE CASTRATED ..
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