How You Dress is a Conversation - REPOST

I know it has been i while i blogged about anything or said anything, but i stumbled on this post i posted on my Facebook page.. (https://www.facebook.com/EveryWomansWorth?ref=hl ) and a part of me wants to repost it again. Most times in the bid to seduce and attract the opposite sex (Males) we go over board with all our sexual appeal to make them see the goods we already have. sometimes we get to trashy without any form of bearing, and most times we attract trashy men for what we do...

But Before i do that, How are you ALL DOING? (In my Wendy Williams voice).. hope you enjoy.


How You Dress is a Conversation?

Ladies, remember this that the way you dress is like a conversation it conveys to people who you are and what you are about. People see you before they hear you. You attract what you convey, always be mindful of that. No one should never judge any one, but just know that appearance do speak before you open your mouth. An unpleasant remark isn't a compliment if it disrespects you as a Lady. 
I know as women we tend to react out of rejection (not knowing that is the issue), so we dress in ways to get acceptance (when I say that we tend to dress in ways for attention not knowing that comes from a place of rejection down the line. We tend to think that any attention is better than no attention, which at the end causes use to settle for less than what God has for us); but when we learn that our acceptance doesn't come from man but God, we will be more mindful of how we act, accept things, dress, and carry ourselves. 
God created you as a woman that is fearfully and wonderfully made. You have the authority to walk in a room a demand attention and respect without opening your mouth, being rude, and prideful. The strength and strive of a women is so powerful in God that your demeanor will cause people to treat you as a daughter of a King with respect; know that respect isn't given it's earn, and you earn it through the way you convey yourself to others. 
Dressing isn't just what you wear, but your altitude, conversation, and demeanor. When I wake up in the morning I dress in prayer, I dress in the word, I dress with the right altitude, I dress with a smile, and I dress for what I want to attract. When I walk in a room I demand attention, not because of looks, pride, or rudeness, but because I know who I am, and I don't need man to validate my life; when Jesus died on the cross he sealed my approval with his Blood. What are you conveying to people? Beauty isn't what’s on the outside, but what's on the inside...selah
(I wrote this piece because as a women, leader, sister, daughter, aunt, granddaughter, niece, mother, and friend I feel the older ladies need to set examples for our younger generation, because each generation is getting worst; and it's not just about how we dress, but how we see ourselves. If we don't show and teach our younger generation about their place in God, that they are fearfully and wonderfully made; they will settle for less in life, but when we set examples to look at they won't settle for less. God desire we havest) 

~Madiya Nicole Randle