The urge and despression to be an automatic girl with class, fame and wealth in the society is actually demeaning the standards our grand mothers planned for us..
Trying hard to meet up with the Jones is affecting the minds of the average girl, intimidation from friends, peers and crave to do what they see on tv is actually making them go the extra mile to achieve this status...
Forgetting worths and values...
This is the true definition of A Big Girl, Anything short of this is lacking self-esteem..
BIG GIRL is a girl with enough brain in her not the one with more money.
She is not the one who flirts with all the men in her hood.
She is the girl who respects her relationship or marriage.
She is never heard but seen.
You know her from what she does and not what she says.
She is not the most expensively dressed but she is the most decently dressed.
A big girl respects the sanity of womanhood.
She carries herself with much dignity.
Money doesnt make you a big girl.
Most of these socalled rich girls are empty inside.
They keep on regretting a lot about their past but to be happy outside their homes.
Stop boasting about the number of men you sleep with my dear.
Remember that cheap articles have more buyers.
Build yourself into the woman that people will always respect and admire.
Never follow the crowd but be yourself.
Be bold but humble, be Godly, be hard working, respect your relationship or marriage, be ambitious but contended, don't make men your priority in life but build yourself into the woman that men will always want to take home to their mama, not the one they only want to take to hotels and Clubs.
Trust me, if you just trap a man with your body, he will go one day because more pretty girls are becoming adults on a daily basis.
Let men fall for your personality and not your bedmatics.
So now Are you a Big Girl???
God bless you all

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