A little Bit Of Compliment Goes A Long Way.

So this Matron in my office always ALWAYS Compliments my dressing... especially when my skirts are long and my tops all up to my neck.. I love the way she says it.. calmly and nicely... it inspires me to dress all up anticipating her next compliments.. it makes me feel good too. She even went as far as saying trousers dnt look good on me.. (Which i agree)

But somedays i dress as if i had it right, she's totally oblivious of my looks, (even if my skirt is below my knee... but if my top is chiffon like see thru.. she says nothing) Yea i did observe.. because when the guys in the office ohhh and ahhh behind my back and because of my behind she isn't still says nothing.

Its funny hw the human mind works.... Mamma didn't tell me that i dress anyhow rudely or disrespectfully, she tactically complimented my most conservative attires and automatically my sub conscience adjusted to receiving it. ( Funny the positive effects of a compliment)

But bck to reality.. i am out of skirts and down to the dresses i have... but still wear jeans.... it boils down to who i am as a person than what i wear...

Do wearing longer skirts and obey-my-tailor tops make me a more better person?

Or wearing a short dress make me an even more obnoxious okrika girl? reducing my worth or ability to comprehend things and Productivity in my job?

This wise kalabari woman... succeeded in making me have a rethink with my dress sense and it is impressive... so even if my skirts will get shorter and my dresses longer... i have learnt the powers of compliments.

She has taught me what wise women use to hold and keep a man

So my days gratitude goes to her.. for instilling such character..